| THOUGHTS ON LOVE
*It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
*You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,
love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions
and commonalities that two people share. And just as life
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.
*Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
*When this happen to young people, they too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
*They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if
they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.
*They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
*You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
*If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love
is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
*If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a
meaning. You will know in time.
*Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you Iin any way you can.
*There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them
rather than from them.
*The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away.
*Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its
THE WAY LOVE IS...
you don't know you need it until you have it, once you have it you don't believe you want it!!! To me, love should come unexpectedly and it should be the best time of your life. You know you love someone unconditionly when you never think twice about whether or not you really want to see him or her later that day. That special someone should be your best friend and share everything. He or she should ask you every waking moment of how you really feel. They should be able to see it in your eyes and the way you talk by how you are emtionally, finacially, mentally, physically, and spiritually. Love is great but hard to find. That's probably our problem, we LOOK for love when it should be looking for us. Love is always there in some form. Everyone feels it, no matter how it came. Love is taken for granted...a lot!!!!! No matter the situation...love is there and just let it happen...it will last longer. Don't force love, if it's real, love will come.
To me True Love is Unconditional... true love is loving someone no matter what. It means touching each others heart so much that you will always, always love each other. No matter what. In a sense, you almost idealize the person you love because there is nothing they could do to make you not love them. True love is forever. Love is the most important thing in life. Without love, there is nothing. If you
have love, you have everything.
a painful yet joyful thang.....Love is nothing more than a thought. Its all in your head. Think about it. Your brain sends out the message. Remember the saying "its all in your head" well thats where it is at. Your brain sends out the feelings. Do you love him/her? Why have so many people fallin in and out of love so many times? Why does it hurt so bad when you do? Why cant you forget about that ex you were soooo in love with? He broke your heart NO he fucked with your head. Will you ever love again yes...someone else will come along in due time and mess with your mind again. They make you feel special and wanted. You feel so good around them or even just talking to them on the phone makes you feel good. Hearing their voice, feeling their arms around you. You feel safe dont you? You should your in love. When your in love noone can take that away from you. Just make sure you are in love with someone who wil love you back....
love of my life love is knowing in your heart that special person in your life loves you, with all their heart, and you feel the same way, thats love, unselfish, kind,giving,caring,helping one another,and just being there for each other no matter what life brings your way. if you have someone you love just love them...
This is truly beautiful...
Love of a lifetime…"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you."
DEFINE LOVE
LOVE IS A FEELING, A GUT-FEELING THAT GOES DEEPS. ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD INSIDE, ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU CHANGE FOR THE BETTER OR SAD TO SAY ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU CHANGE FOR THE WORST ACCORDING TO HIS/HER DOINGS, BUT WHATEVER IT IS A FEELING OF BEING COMFORTABLE, PEACEFUL, AND HAPPY. NORMALLY LOVE DON'T HURT.
knowing all the bad parts of someone and still caring about them and wanting to be with them anyway...and it's being able to show all of yourself (even the bad parts!) to someone and trust them enough to understand and they love you in spite of them!!! It's also wanting the best of everything in life for someone .. even if you won't be a part of that
life.. love is empathy when something bad happens to the one you love, even if it makes no sense to you!!... love is wanting to be there when someone needs you..even if you can't be..and love is needing them to be the first person you tell good stuff to and bad stuff to.... love is unexplainable..being In love fades (but damn.. it is so GREAT while you feel that rush!!) .. but love is annoying frustrating, hurtful, wonderful, comfortable, happy, sad,
trusting, sharing, compromising, .... and holding hands in the mall while shopping even after you've just had the biggest fight before you got out of the car .. :)
Love is what makes the world go round.
Love is when u cannot sleep, eat, breathe, or do anything without thinking of that person. It is even beautiful when the feelings are shared mutually.
what is love?
No words can define it, it something so pure only god could design it,it is faithful and honest and always beleving, guiltless and patient and never deceving,for love means much more than words can express, for what man calls love is so very much less. love is unselfish giving more than it takes and no matter what happens love never forsakes, yes love is beyond what man can define, for love is immortal, and god's gift is devine.
*Love is not saying I love you. You can say that and not really love that person.
*Love is not sex but it's part of it.
*I define love as being drawn to a person emotionaly wanting to make that person happy no matter what it takes.
*Wanting that person so much that it hurts.
respecting that person and accepting that person for who they are as a person.
*Not wanting for your personal gain. for example: having to love someone because they wont love u back.
*people say that love is painful... well it is painful but it feels good to fall in love with a person... while you're hurting like crazy and you even end up thinking of commiting suicide bcoz of the pain it causes... you ask your self, "wen will this pain ever go away?" you'r the only one who can answer that.... itz like after he/she leaves your life, you feel all alone n left out... u once thought that he/she was your everything, u thought she was, but i guess u juz have to accept the fact that shes not yours anymore... u get mad at your self for the things you did to him/her n u juz wish for one last chance to make it up to him/her... love is a real life course that we all must take in the journey of life itself... u know you've tried as hardx as u kud to maintain the relatinship but she just wasnt treating you rite... u didnt like how she tyreated you but sumtimes you hav to put up with it, the best you can... i you really love a person, no matter wat happens, you'll stick and be with them, to guide and help them... if they say that you'r making their life difficult to live in, then juz back off n juz try to undrstnd that they'll be happier without you... sumpeople feel that they'r so not free wen they have a bf or gf.... i now you dont feel like you'r free but it is fo shoz that wen u feel like you'r not free your other partner feels so free in your love.... it will aaways be the opposite of wat you feel.. it maybe |
